Monday, April 1, 2013

assalamualaikum...buat sahabat dan sahabiah semua...
moga kita sama2 dinaungi perlindungan dan keberkatan ALLAH Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala..
inshaa ALLAH.

alhamdulillah..masih berpeluang utk bernafas di muka bumi ini...dengan nikmat yang sangat berharga dan tidak ternilai..iaitu nikmat IMAN & ISLAM..

kita sebagai manusia..tidak lengkap hidup ini jika kita hanya melakukan sesuatu perkara tanpa insan lain yang Allah hadirkan sebagai teman.

teman.kawan.sahabat.
merupakan insan yang penting selepas keluarga kita.
kita pastinya perlu menjaga hati mereka sepertimana kita jaga hati ibu bapa kita..adik-adik kita dan saudara mara kita...

namun...
adakah kita pernah sedar...yang sebenarnya...
dalam diam dan tanpa kita sedari..
kita telah MENYAKITI hati sahabat kita.

Apakah yang kita telah lakukan sampai kita tidak sedar yang kita sebenarnya menyakiti mereka???

Just ask yourself.
Think dan Refresh back your mind.
What have you done to your friend since the friendship is begin?
Did your acts and your words had hurt them??

Hmm...what did I do??
Sometimes...we didn't realize that we have hurt them.

Ok..let I give you some example..that our acts or words that have hurt them...

We do something that they do not like.
We do something that interferes them.

Interferes??
What is interferes??

Interferes = to get involved in a situation which does not involve you and where you are not wanted.

ok..simple example.

Staying in your friend's room for a long period of time.
Don't you think that you have interupt other's privacy??
Don't you??

Not everyone can accept the situation.
if you just staying in his/her room just for awile..it's will be ok.

but.

if you make that room like yours.
It will hurt the owner...

Somegoes if you borrow something or eat some food from your friend...
don't use that thing or eat that food like it is yours.......

SO..just think n refresh back your mind n heart...
think that have I give my friends a good treat??
If never, try to be a good friend to them.
Be nice.
Say "sorry" to them that you didn't realize that you have hurt them all this time...

Inshaa ALLAH..
Your friendship will keep long and sweet until Jannatul Firdausi..

Daripada Abdullah bin Umar r.a, Nabi Muhammad SAW bersabda yang bermaksud:
"Seorang Muslim adalah saudara kepada seorang Muslim yang lain; ia tidak menzaliminya dan tidak menghinanya."
[HR al-Bukhari & Muslim]

Daripada Anas bin Malik r.a, Nabi Muhammad SAW bersabda yang bermaksud :
"Sesiapa yang inginkan rezekinya diluaskan dan dipanjangkan usianya,maka jalinkanlah hubungan silaturahim (dengan ihsan)."
[HR al-Bukhari & Muslim]

Daripada Anas r.a, Nabi Muhammad SAW bersabda yang bermaksud :
"Tidak sempurna iman seseorang daripada kamu sehinggalah ia mengasihi saudaranya seperti ia mengasihi dirinya sendiri."
[HR al-Bukhari & Muslim]

Waallahu'alam.
~peringatan buat sahabat-sahabat dan juga buat diriku yang mudah terlupa~







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